PART-3
TEENAGER
Bird is ready to fly higher and higher!
It’s the phase in which influence makes a difference in each and every one’s life likewise “a contour is given to a pot by a porter”.
When I entered in my teenage, the feelings changed according to the time as of my growing age.
It was the time when I couldn’t share my feeling with anyone due to my introvert nature. The introvert nature was due to the boundation’s I had at that time.
I still remember my dad’s words “my dear daughter this is the age where you will feel like making friends, try to know people around you but don’t get distracted from your studies . study well and pass out from school with good marks then you can enjoy your life to the fullest , when I passed out my 12th I told dad ,dad can I go with friends to party out ,go for movies etc… dad said beta focus on your graduation score good marks for better opportunities of job as the competition is too tough. I told dad ok ….i know my dad said all these things for my betterment but I use to feel so bounded and frustrated . Now I can proudly say yes, my dad was completely right…”
Teenager life is too complicated.
When I was in my teenage, I was very confused. Thinking only about studies and exams was no more the only aim. Always had the feeling that I should be ahead of everyone in every field.
I was too aggressive. I still remember few incidence of my life-
Ø When I was in my school, my younger sister use to study with me in same school, after school got over we both use to board the bus while coming back home. My sister was sitting near window seat and was waiting for me to come. In meanwhile one of her classmate (Surbhi) sat next to her and she started argue with my sis for window seat and Surbhi’s elder sister who was head girl of our school came and threw my sister’s bag outside the window . I saw my sister crying and I asked her what happened .She told me the whole thing and I couldn’t control my anger I holded the head girl’s neck so tightly that she couldn’t breathe properly and her throught got choked .Loll my teachers who were there in the bus came and made me leave her neck. And next day she came to my place and told my dad .then what my dad first made her say sorry to me and then I apologized to her. But that day I realize I was an aggressive girl.
Ø When I was in my 8th standard I had conflict with one of my class mate. Till 8th I was the most shy and calm girl who couldn’t speak to guys properly , very shy in asking question to teachers as I was very insecured what people will think if I l ask question to my teachers. I was very introvert due to which I never had friend circle. I had hardly 1-2 friends. But one day one of my friend provoke me that I don’t have guts to reply back people when they talk bad about me or tease me. I got really hyper and out of blue don’t know how come I went to the girl with whom I had grudges ,she was drinking water near water cooler ,without realizing I slapped her and later my vice principle scolded me L . But that’s how teenager phase is, we easily get influenced ….
In teenage, we have different relation with different people .Let’s talk about
PARENTS (Age Gap Creates Differences.)
Well I respect my parents the most and I have always listen to what they have told me. There has been many moments when I use to get frustrated and felt bad due to the restriction they created at that time. But today when I think about those moments I feel even they were right at their place.
Parents are very much attached to their children and boundations or restrictions are the part of their care and love.
I had friends who always complaint about their parents that they are narrow minded , they are very strict etc.. but in teenager phase I believe if parents become strict its for our betterment only.
Today I truly admire my parents and I am greatful to god that he has given me the best parents who love me so much and are so understanding because they have loved me the way I am, good or bad , they never tried to changed me but always inspired me to live my life.
FRIENDS (good friend leads to the positive path whereas wrong company can spoil precious life.)
When I was 16 years old I had good friend circle (isha,subhu,hanish) with whom I can share my talks , study together , go for coaching classes etc…. we all met in tution classes and till today we all are in contact and still good friends. Good company of friends can take us on right path whereas bad company can spoil our life.
It’s a true saying “OLD IS GOLD”!! I am really lucky to have such friends who have been with me in every situation.
SCHOOL EXPERIENCE (BEAUTIFUL MOMENTS OF LIFE)
School time is the time where we develop our thinking, get to know about our strengths, we discover our hidden talent.
Till 8th I was too dumb. Very shy, scared of talking to teachers, classmates due to the fear that I am not like them.
I never realized that even I can be like them but I should be happy the way I am. In 9th standard when few friends made me understand that even I have talent in me, I can be fluent in English , even I can speak like them , I can groom my skills , from that day I promised myself I will learn more and more… I will add few things in me which can make me a better human being. I was shy, introvert due to which I suffered alot, people use to take me lightly , make fun of me, try to take advantage of my innocence. When I realized, this world is really not the way I think so I became blunt and bold girl. After that if guys use to talk crap I use to revert back and show what I am. I overcame from my fear. Due to this my friend circle became huge and people started accepting me.
" Never compare yourself with others because it's like you insult yourself."
Author Unknown --- Submitted by Himadry N., Age 15 --- India
Author Unknown --- Submitted by Himadry N., Age 15 --- India
